Don`t take anything personal. This is the second chord of Don Miguel Ruiz`s classic,”The Four Accords.” I need a memory today. So I open his book on this chapter and read: The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom is a self-help book by best-selling author Don Miguel Ruiz with Janet Mills. The book proposes a code of conduct based on the ancient wisdom of Toltec, which advocates the freedom of self-limiting beliefs that can cause suffering and limitations in a person`s life. The fourth agreement allows readers to have a better understanding of the progress made in achieving their goals in life. This agreement involves the integration of the first three agreements into daily life and the exploitation of its own potential.  It is a matter of doing the best that can be managed individually, which varies from the different situations and circumstances that the individual may encounter. Ruiz believes that if you judge yourself and do your best at all times, you will be able to avoid remorse.  By integrating the first three chords and doing the best in all facets of life, the individual will be able to lead a life without grief or self-awareness.  This book, first published in 1997, has been sold more than 8.2 million times in the United States  and has been translated into 46 languages worldwide.  The book gained popularity after being supported by Oprah Winfrey in 2001 on the Oprah Winfrey Show and in 2013 in the television series Super Soul Sunday.  This book has also been on the New York Times bestseller list for more than a decade.
 Enter your mobile phone number or email address below and we`ll send you a link to download the free Kindle app. Then you can start reading Kindle books on your smartphone, tablet or computer – no Kindle device is needed. The book is based on a series of spiritual beliefs, held by Toltec`s seniors, to help readers transform their lives into a new experience of freedom, happiness and love.  According to the author, everything a man does is based on agreements he has made with himself, with others, with God and with life itself.  In these agreements, we can tell ourselves who they are, how to behave, what is possible and what is impossible.  Some agreements that create individuals may not cause problems, but there are certain arrangements that come from a place of fear and have the power to deplete emotional energy and reduce a person`s self-esteem.  The book states that these self-limiting agreements cause unnecessary suffering.  Ruiz also believes that to find personal joy, one must get rid of socially imposed and fear-based agreements that can unconsciously influence the individual`s behaviour and thinking.  Another fundamental premise of the book suggests that much of the suffering is created and that most people have the ability to transform themselves and the negative thoughts they have about the situations in their lives.  The author identifies the sources of unhappiness in life and proposes four beneficial agreements that can be concluded with oneself to improve their general state of well-being.
By pacting with these four most important chords, an individual is able to dramatically influence the amount of happiness he feels in his life, regardless of external circumstances.  The book was originally published in 1997 by Amber-Allen in California. The book has been translated into 46 languages, including Arabic, Chinese and Spanish.  An illustrated edition was then published by the same company in 2010 to celebrate the book`s 15th anniversary.  In addition to the book and audiobook, there is also an ebook, a four-colour picture book, a map deck and an online course.  The four agreements, published in 1997; It has been a New York Times bestseller for over a decade.